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Positive Self-Talk: How to Create and Practice Self-Affirmations that Work

What are Self-affirmations? When going through a rough patch, we have all been reminded by our well-wishers to use positive self-statements such as, ā€œI am okay" or ā€œI can do this.ā€ Known as self-affirmations, these statements demonstrate oneā€™s adequacy usually through writing positive statements about oneā€™s core personal values (Cohen & Sherman, 2014). When things donā€™t happen as planned or when you have setbacks, self-affirmation statements provide you with a tool to defend your positive self-image by bolstering your self-image (Critcher & Dunning, 2015). Self-affirmations work by enhancing your self-integrity ā€“ an image of oneself being able to control important adaptive and moral outcomes in oneā€™s life. Self-affirmations broaden your perspective beyond a particular stressful situation by reminding you of your other strengths and resources that are not limited by the situation at hand (Cohen & Sherman, 2014). This in turn helps you put things in perspective, disengag...